God has given us women the wonderful trait or ability to see further than the now .and this trait also makes some women to imagine a future that will not really be ,because of what we see at present . For example, a man ask you out on a date ,opens the doors for you, pours you your drink .drops you off, at your door calls you frequently afterwards and immediately wedding bells will start ringing in your head.
This wonderful trait of forecast God has given us ,must be balanced in order for us to gain joyful results from the decisions we make .Because we see things so quickly we are tempted to move ahead of GOD , to stir up love so to speak if we even sense the possibility of this happening. But we must be willing to adapt to the feelings and desires of others. Love is flexible ,love is patient real love that is really there will not go any where. Therefore take your time, test every relationship ,observe it ,to discern its intentions .Is it Lust or Is it Love ?only time and patience can help you distinguish between the two. Think of it this way ,You ,ve been alone this long ,why hurry now? Wait and get it right .Allow the heart to settle into a realistic space .Don't push ,cajole ,or try to make things happen before the appointed time. Remember there is a season for every thing including examining and discerning between love and lust. Over and over again, scripture encourages us to be very clear on what we are doing and where we are going it is important to use your head as well as your heart in the area of love .for something that is lasting there should be no rushing into it. True love really is not a feeling ,it is a decision it is not love that makes a relationship last through challenges ,it is a decision to be committed to the commitment we eventually make .It is the ability to grow to understand the person we are making the commitment with. Therefore, give thought to making promises so that you will not be too quick to break them...
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