DATING ADVICE ,COPPING WITH FEAR AND ANXIETY

There is a certain inner fear and anxiety that comes upon women as we approach the age of 30 years .this not only affects women approaching 30 years , also those that are in their late thirties or over 40 and not yet married .this feeling is more intense if the woman has age mates that are already married,This is a challenge that affects a lot of single christian women and unfortunately nobody seems to explain to them how to manage this stage of their lives so they get into unnecessary and exhausting relationships and end up selling themselves short .
I am going to try to give you some dating advice as a  solution to this heartfelt problem by sharing with you how I solved my anxiety and fear when I was in that situation.
To deal with the problem, lets get to the source or reason for the anxiety.

1. .Fertility clock is ticking
2. .Youth/physical beauty is diminishing
3. . The older you get, the lower the number of suitors that come your way
4. .Family pressures to get married
5.  Societal expectations

Everything I have listed above is a fact.But it is NOT ENOUGH FOR YOU TO ALLOW IT TO PUSH YOU TO TAKE OR MAKE WRONG DECISIONS
We now know the reasons for the fears and anxieties here are some suggested ways to tackle it
1.Stop praying from a position of anxiety,fear and desperation and start praying from a point of purpose.now what do i mean by this?Ecclesiastes 3 vs 1 says "To everything there is a season,A time  for every purpose under the heaven".THAT SIMPLE MEANS STOP PRAYING FOR A HUSBAND AND START PRAYING FOR REVELATION OF PURPOSE because when you know your purpose, you will begin to understand the delay.In my next posting we will continue with more ways to tackle anxiety and fear.
REMEMBER TO BE A READY BRIDE YOU MUST BE WILLING TO LET YOUR CREATOR PACKAGE YOU.